Thing

I get it.

You hear it all the time. You see your friends/family/people on social media doing it. But you don’t understand WHY you can’t.

Can’t what? Does it matter?

Its that THING.

That thing that bothers you. That thing that has bothered you for years in fact.

That thing that you think you have worked out the system/plan/map for. And yet you lose momentum/lose focus/lose why you were doing it in the first place.

You start off well. Then you fail.

That thing that you think will give you the answers/the money/the figure/the confidence/the partner/the feeling.

That thing that you think will make you happier/richer/contented/stronger/prettier/slimmer/more popular.

Yes thats right.

THAT thing.

That thing that you berate yourself over time and time again.

That thing that you can’t work WHY is doesn’t work. WHY you fail at, time and time again.

You know what I am talking about. You know that feeling well don’t you?

You know of course, that I am talking to me. But its you too. Yes?

You know that feeling so well, that you even look forward to it as its comfortable for you.

You ‘know’ how it will feel for you – so you actually go back there.

Like a compass that always points North.

That thing you can’t do. You are used to not doing it. So back to North you go.

What if, for a crazy moment you knew at a deep core level that you could achieve that thing? What could happen?

Hmmm…deep core level huh? I’m sure you can logic your thoughts into ‘thinking’ that you can do it. But what if those deep beliefs that you have held for nearly your entire lifetime were still there?

I’m not good enough.

I don’t believe in myself.

I won’t be loved if I…

Childlike? Silly? Perhaps, but ultimately they are still there. And they are holding you back.

True dat.

How to remedy this? Note: I didn’t say ‘fix’ this? No one needs fixing…perhaps a blog for another day…

Awareness is the first step. Noting and being aware that you even have these beliefs about yourself.

Change it – is the second step. Change your beliefs about what you can do/achieve.

I am good enough.

I do believe in myself.

I am loved….

You get what you focus on. Focus on not being good enough… and that is what you will find. Evidence to support that belief. I suggest reading this blog for more on that subject…

You know it. Today you will find only red cars on the road. You will focus on only red cars. Guess how many you will see? Yep, they were always there. You just shifted your focus. And you can do the same on your beliefs… look for evidence to support that you are enough, you do believe in you and that you are loved.

Let go of that victim state. It doesn’t serve you. You can eff’ that off right now.

Perhaps you need help to do this? Talk to someone, a friend or a relative. Or a coach (me) or a psychologist. Its ok to talk about it.In fact, NOT talking about it is as bad as focusing on it.

That THING could be closer than you realise.

Off you go. Do that thing today.

Emma xx

OFFER: I am taking just 4 people for 1:1 coaching who are ready to make the next step in improving their lives. We start next week too.

This is what we will be covering (amongst other things!)

* Getting clear about why you’re not there yet

* What is the work you’ve NOT been doing?

* What is the BS you’ve been telling yourselves about how you have to put up with sh*t?

* What have you been hiding from?

* We will go through your daily routines and establish what is and isn’t working

We will delve in deep about WHAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK and remove that BS for good

Plus much much more!

How will you work with me?

* 2 x 90 min phone/skype sessions over 4 weeks plus 2 x 35 min phone/skype sessions per week for extra accountability

* Day to day access to PM/email so I can help you in any way I can – again over 4 weeks

What can you expect as a result?

* You getting your sh*t done on a higher level

* More time and more energy

* More focus and clarity

* Purpose and confidence in your life

* You will stop doing sh*t that holds you back and that you don’t want to do

Investment

$547AUD or 2 payments of $275AUD

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I’ll be honest, I will interview you and find that you are not ready, you will get a refund. My clients are READY to roll up their sleeves and do their THING. xx